Overview
Some children can become anxious about going to school, their school work, friendships or bullying. This is often when they’re changing to a new school or moving up a level.
They do not always talk to their parents about their anxiety, and instead complain of stomach aches or feeling sick. One sign is crying or seeming overly tired. They may also show a reluctance to attend school, which can lead to reduced attendance and further anxiety regarding school.
Anxiety
Some of the signs to look out for in your child are
- finding it hard to concentrate
- not sleeping, or waking in the night with bad dreams
- not eating properly
- quickly getting angry or irritable
- constantly worrying or having negative thoughts
- feeling tense and fidgety, or using the toilet often
- always crying
- being clingy all the time
- complaining of stomach aches and feeling unwell.
Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA) is a term used to describe children and young people who experience challenges in attending school due to negative feelings (such as anxiety). Somerset Educational Psychology Service have a range of information for schools, parents and children and young people including what EBSA is, why it might be happening and also how to help. This includes specific information for professionals, parent carers, young people, and children.
You can also find out more about anxiety disorders in children and where to go for help on the NHS website.
Bullying
Bullying can have a big impact on emotional well-being. You can find what to do and who to talk to on our bullying and harassment page.
