Overview
Growing up in a family with a brother or sister with a disability or who has special educational needs doesn’t necessarily change the things all siblings have in common or the way they behave with each other. There is still a rivalry, loyalty, and a lot to enjoy together.
Brothers and sisters want to have ordinary lives and positive relationships with their disabled siblings, even though some of the feelings involved may be stronger and often changing.
Above all else, they usually want their disabled brothers and sisters to get the support they need so that they can have as ordinary a life as possible.
Support for siblings
Children or young people with a sibling who needs extra help often do a lot around the house. They might do more chores and caring tasks than other children or young people their age. When children or young people help out like that regularly, they’re called young carers. Support is available to make sure they also get time for themselves.
Sibs is a national charity which provides information to help siblings and their Parents and Carers. They have also developed a website for younger siblings called Young Sibs where siblings can chat with others and speak to an advisor.
Activities that families can do together
Parents with a child with SEND may struggle to find activities all their kids can enjoy together. The Community Inclusion and Activity Team offer a calendar of events, some of which are for the entire family. There are also activity passes available for family attractions.